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Helpful Advice

Gentle guidance when you need it most

You do not need to have all the answers right now. The information below is here to gently guide you, at your own pace.

🀍 What to Do When Someone Dies

➀ What should I do if someone dies?
If someone has died, take a moment to pause. You do not need to do everything at once.
If the death was expected, a doctor or nurse will guide you on the next steps. If it was unexpected, emergency services may need to be contacted.
When you feel ready, you can contact us at any time, day or night. We will calmly guide you through what happens next.

➀ Do I need to contact anyone straight away?
Not always. In many situations, there is no immediate rush.
The most important thing is to ensure the death has been confirmed by the appropriate professional.
Once this has happened, you can contact us when you feel able.

➀ What happens next?
After a death, there are a few practical steps such as bringing your loved one into our care, registering the death, and arranging the funeral.
We will explain each step gently and clearly, taking things at a pace that feels right for you.

🌿 Reassurance & Common Concerns

➀ What if I don’t know what the person wanted?
Many families worry about this, and it is very common.
You do not need to have all the answers. We can help you talk through what feels most fitting.

➀ Is it normal to feel overwhelmed?
Yes. Grief affects everyone differently.
Feeling overwhelmed, numb or unsure is completely natural.
You can take your time, ask questions more than once, and move at your own pace.

➀ Can children attend a funeral?
Many families choose for children to attend, while others prefer not to.
There is no single right answer β€” only what feels right for your family.

➀ What if I’m not ready to speak yet?
That’s completely okay.
This website is here to provide reassurance until you feel ready.
When you do, we will be here to listen.

You are not alone in this.

If and when you feel ready, we are here to help.

National & Scotland-Based Support

Cruse Bereavement Support (Scotland)
β€’ Free, confidential support
β€’ For adults, children and families
🌐 crusescotland.org.uk
πŸ“ž 0808 802 6161

Child Bereavement UK
β€’ Specialist support for children and families
🌐 childbereavementuk.org
πŸ“ž 0800 02 888 40

Marie Curie
β€’ Practical and emotional support
🌐 mariecurie.org.uk

The Samaritans
β€’ 24-hour listening support
🌐 samaritans.org
πŸ“ž 116 123

You do not need to be in crisis to contact Samaritans.

πŸ“ Local Support in Perthshire

Your GP or Local Health Centre
First point of contact
Can refer you to support services

Local Counselling Services
Independent support available locally
Ask your GP for recommendations

Faith & Community Groups
If you would like us to help you connect with someone locally, we are always happy to assist.

Contact Us

We're here to help 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Our Location

Burnside Funeral Home
Aberfeldy, PH15 2AU

Email

info@perthshirefuneraldirectors.co.uk

Phone

Mobile: 07902 076125
Office: 01887 440307

Hours

Monday - Sunday: 24 hrs a Day

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